Perhaps it
comes from a need to be accepted by the older sibling; perhaps it is merely
that they are in awe of this pint sized person of whose shadow they live in.
Whatever the case, I have observed this time and time again in the natives and
it made me reminiscent of my younger days.
You see, as I
made my own journey through adolescence, I did not have a sibling to go through
the expedition with. I did however have cousins from a neighboring tribe with
whom I went through many of my adventures. One of which I was reminded of this
week as I watched the younger native striving to impress his older sibling.
It took me
back to a jungle some 20 years ago. As I happily played with my companion we
kept getting interrupted by his younger sibling who was distraught about a
rainbow of all things. Their jungle had recently gotten new flooring, a
beautiful, plush white carpet. In doing so the youngster had noticed that a
rainbow had made its way through the glass window and onto the new carpeting. Her
caretaker had apparently informed her that the rainbow would in fact disappear as
night fell.
After much
pestering by the younger native my companion and I decided if we couldn't have
fun without her then we may as well have some fun with her as only impish
siblings and cousins are capable of. We colluded to get her into trouble for
the sake of our own amusement and have her place some parchment directly on the new carpet to make an imitation of the rainbow. By doing so we were sure
she would be caught and imprisoned in her cave for not using parchment on the
proper surface.
As it turns
out per our suggestion the young native decided that perhaps an even better
solution would be to make sure the rainbow stayed as it was eternally. We
watched with a mix of horror and delight as the young one slowly and carefully
used permanent markers to color in the rainbow.
When she
finished their caretaker arrived on cue to find two faces of guilt ridden
pleasure and one of innocent delight. She shrieked for the siblings to retreat
to their caves indefinitely leaving me to sit next to her as the smoke began to
billow out of her ears. Seemingly lost for words or context she repeated over
and over, “I can’t believe they did that, I can’t believe they did that!” To
this day I assert that I had the more severe sentence over my cohorts who got
to rest safely in their caves to wait out the storm. Alas, that is the
influence of a sibling.
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